Common sense isn’t Common Anymore

 


Dear Journal,

As I sit here, the weight of my years and experiences pressing heavily on my heart, I find myself reflecting on a topic that has been gnawing at me for some time now: the decline of common sense in our society, particularly among the newer generations. It's a subject that stirs a mix of emotions within me—frustration, concern, and a deep-seated worry for the future.

Common sense, that practical, down-to-earth wisdom that guides us through life's challenges, seems to be increasingly uncommon these days. It's as if the very fabric of rational thought and intuitive understanding is fraying at the edges, leaving us with a generation that often struggles to navigate the simplest of situations.

I remember a time when common sense was just that—common. It was the unspoken code that guided our actions, the voice of reason that whispered in our ears, the compass that kept us on the right path. It was the wisdom passed down from one generation to the next, the lessons learned from experience, the knowledge that came from living life and making mistakes.

But today, it feels like common sense has become a rare commodity. I see young people making decisions that defy logic, taking actions that seem almost deliberately reckless. I see a generation that often seems more concerned with virtual realities than with the real world, more interested in the opinions of strangers on the internet than in the advice of their elders.

One of the most significant factors contributing to this lack of common sense is the new generation's reliance on technology. While technological advancements have undoubtedly brought about numerous benefits, they have also created a dependency that can hinder the development of critical thinking and practical wisdom. Young people today are often more comfortable navigating a digital interface than they are dealing with real-world problems. They turn to Google for answers rather than thinking through a situation, and they rely on social media for validation rather than seeking the counsel of those with more life experience.

This over-reliance on technology has led to a disconnect from the practical aspects of life. The ability to problem-solve, to think critically, and to make informed decisions is being eroded by the constant distraction and instant gratification that technology provides. The new generation is growing up in a world where information is always at their fingertips, but the wisdom to use that information effectively is often lacking.

It breaks my heart to see the disconnect, the lack of understanding, the absence of that practical wisdom that used to be so prevalent. I worry about the future, about what will happen when this generation takes the reins, when they are the ones making the decisions that will shape our world.

But rather than dwell on the problem, I want to focus on the solution. I believe that the older generation has a responsibility, a duty, to help the newer generations learn common sense. We have a wealth of experience, a treasure trove of knowledge, a lifetime of lessons learned the hard way. And it's our job to pass that on, to share our wisdom, to guide the next generation as they navigate the complexities of life.

We need to teach them the value of critical thinking, the importance of questioning, the necessity of making informed decisions. We need to show them that actions have consequences, that choices have repercussions, that every decision they make will shape their future in one way or another.

We need to encourage them to look up from their screens, to engage with the world around them, to experience life in all its messy, complicated glory. We need to help them understand that common sense is not something that can be learned from a book or a website; it's something that comes from living, from doing, from making mistakes and learning from them.

But most of all, we need to listen. We need to hear their concerns, their fears, their dreams. We need to understand their perspective, their struggles, their hopes. We need to bridge the gap between the generations, to build a connection based on mutual respect and understanding.

Because at the end of the day, common sense is not just about making the right decisions; it's about understanding why those decisions are right. It's about having the wisdom to see the bigger picture, the courage to make tough choices, the resilience to learn from our mistakes.

And it's our job, as the older generation, to help the newer generations develop that wisdom, that courage, that resilience. It's our responsibility to pass on the torch of common sense, to ensure that it continues to burn brightly, guiding the next generation as they make their way through the world.

So let me leave you with this: if you are part of the older generation, take the time to share your wisdom, your experience, your common sense. Reach out to the younger generation, listen to them, guide them, teach them. Because the future of our society, the future of our world, depends on it.

And if you are part of the newer generation, seek out the wisdom of your elders. Listen to their stories, learn from their experiences, benefit from their common sense. Because it is a gift, a treasure, a legacy that can help you navigate the challenges of life and build a brighter future for us all.

With a heart full of hope and concern,

A Disabled Marine Veteran, A Mentor, A Guardian of Common Sense

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